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~ Bowling and the cougar

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MILFs.  Cougars.  Sometimes, lots of times, one and the same.  And as they say, it’s all good.  I have dated non-MILF cougars and MILF cougars, and they all excite me.  I want to tell you about the time I had a dalliance shall I say with this amazing cougar.  She was 46 and was amazing.  Laura was her name and I met her at a bowling alley.  Now I don’t bowl and she didn’t bowl.  Both of us were there for different birthday parties.  And we were sort of chaperoning along with a couple other adults.  She had shoulder-length blond hair, although she did admit to me that her hair was really brown, lol.  Laura was a petite little thing, maybe 5’ 1”, maybe, and she had striking blue eyes, although she did admit to me she was wearing colored contact lenses, lol.  Nice body, big boobs, and no she told me they were real when I asked her if she was a real person, and she caught me checking out her ample bosom.

So the kids were bowling and Laura and I sat in those uncomfortable hard plastic chairs drinking soda and eating pizza and just joking around.  Laura was a never-married administrative assistant for some printing office.  It was a boring job.  She told me it was and I figured it was.  But hey, a job is a job, you know.  When I told her about my job, she asked me to regale her with stories, so I did, no names don’t worry.  And the vast, vast majority of the stories were very good to great.  There were a couple funny ones.  Of course,  I made it a point to tell her stories where some guy and some girl got together for casual fun.  🙂

She thought that was great and wanted to join one of the sites from which I told her a great story – SeekingMilf.com.  She made a note with one of those little bowling alley pencils on a piece of paper she tore off a score sheet.  And she took my number too.  When the parties ended and all the little monsters were safely out of there, Laura said, “I will call you. I would like to hear more stories”.  That was fine by me.  I should have asked her out but I didn’t, don’t know why actually, lol.

Anyway, I hadn’t heard from her in a week plus so I actually forgot about her.  Nearly a month after we met at the bowling alley, she called me.  We talked for a bit and she said hey, let’s get together.  She invited me to her place for dinner the next night, Friday night.  Just like that.  Nice.  She did say she was bold and aggressive and knew what she liked and went after it.  Who was I to disagree with that?  So I went to her place and she made a great dinner.  Perfect for me.  It was hamburgers she grilled on her apartment patio and french fries and apple pie.  The perfect meal for a junk food junkie like me.   Then we drank some wine I brought and let loose from there.  The clothes came off, and we had a crazy good time.  She was a freak!  I never met her again.  🙂  She did join SeekingMilf.com by the way.  Maybe you can find her there.  If you do, mmmmmmm.

~ David’s juggling act

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Years ago when I lived on the East Coast – and I do very much remember the winters there, lol, that was why I left for Los Angeles, sorry all those in the New England area, well, I am not sorry, lol – my good friend David started seeing a lady who was about 5 years older than him and who had two kids.  She was divorced and really not bad looking at all.  Blonde, cute, good body, nice.  David was quite the ladies’ man.  Gutsy, not especially handsome but OK, not especially tall, but a nice guy.  And he knew how to turn on the charm.  I could turn on the charm as well, but wasn’t as gutsy.  So I marveled at how David went from lady to lady, girlfriend to girlfriend.  And he especially liked the mothers, the MILFs.  They were in his words, nice, and ready to go.  He didn’t say they were easy, just that they were sex-starved for the most part, and if you want sex go after those who want it too.

David was seeing another lady at that time, a brunette also divorced with one kid, who was crazy about him, a bit controlling I remember.  He juggled these ladies.  And that is my story today, David’s juggling act.  I do not remember the names of the women just what David was doing with both.  David lived alone and I would go to his apartment to hang out after school sometimes, and one day he is with one and the next with the other.  They weren’t there each night, after all David took them out and went to their place too and messed around there when their kids were asleep.  But there were a few times that he almost got caught because everyone kind of lived in the same area of town.  The girls would just show up sometimes and I told David that one day they will both come over at the same time and what will you do?

And of course it happened.   One night I was over at David’s and sure enough the blonde just shows up.  After about 30 minutes of her being there, the brunette came by.  Now David lived on the first floor and his kitchen window faced the parking lot, lucky for him.  He was in the kitchen and saw the brunette parking.  So David yells out to me to come to the kitchen and I do.  And he says, “Dude, you need to get out there in the parking lot and send the girl away.  I don’t care how you do it, just do it.”  The he calls the blonde to the kitchen.  Before I could get outside, the brunette is at the front door!  I open it and go out as if I am leaving, saying hi and telling her David wasn’t there.  But she saw his car and didn’t believe me.  I told her I had taken David to his parents, his car having a problem.  I came back to the apartment to look for a check David had left behind and I didn’t find it, and was leaving to go to back to David’s parents’ house.  I don’t know if she bought that but I acted as if I was locking up and leaving.  And I did and she did.

Then I went back to David’s.  The blonde was still there and I told David what I did.  Boy did he owe me.  The thing they all had in common?  They met on the same MILF dating site.  That site no longer exists, but when we were making this free dating site review place for you, I insisted we add MILFs partly because David was able to get two at nearly the same time from a MILF dating site.  So why not you if you want?  David wasn’t anything special.  Go to MilfAholic.com for hot, naughty MILFs who want it even more than you, lol.  And have fun with as many as you like!

~ The Rendezvous with Evelyn

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The first MILF, at least the first time, a MILF had been glorified was in the 1967 movie, The Graduate.  It was a pretty popular movie about a 20 year-old young guy who has an affair with his parents’ friend, the mother of a girl the character was seeing.  The term MILF was not used, but that character was a MILF.  Lucky Dustin Hoffman, the young guy.  Then the term MILF became popularized in the 1999 movie, American Pie.  If you have’t seen either of those two movies, do so.  They are pretty good.

Anyway, unfortunately, when younger I didn’t have my own MILF to play with or even fantasize about.  I was raised in a pretty religious house and heck, I didn’t even think about those things.  I also went to a parochial all male school.  So MILF or anything like that was not anywhere near my thinking.  But, and this is a big and good but, I have had my dalliances with mom ladies over the years and they were fun.

One such lady was Evelyn, someone whose kid I tutored when I was in college.  Here is how we met.  There was a bar/club just off campus called The Rendezvous and it was mainly for students although others went there too.  As a grad student, I would go with my friends sometimes on a Friday night after the week’s classes or my tutoring was done.  I used to teach kids.  One night, this lady, she looked in her 30’s, had dirty blonde hair and a great body, came up to the bar where I was standing.  She was already pretty happy, lol, before she even got the drink she ordered.  As she waited for her drink, she struck up a chat with me.  Why, I don’t know, lol.  Could be because I had just made some funny comment to my buddy who was standing next to me.  Anyway, being the character that I am, I went with the flow, actually pretty flattered that this good-looking lady would waste her time with me, when it looked like she could be with anyone she wanted.

Evelyn laughed and laughed even at my weak jokes.  🙂  She was funny in her own right. She had a 7 year old and was divorced.  Her kid was at her mom’s so she could go out.  I wondered why she was out alone and she said her girlfriend had to cancel and she knew of the bar and wanted to see what it was like.  OK by me.  I toasted her and my good fortune that we had met.  Here is the part that threw me for a loop.  After she had two drinks, she said, “Enough!”  A bunch of people heard her.  Then get this, she grabs me by my tie – I wore one when I taught one particular kid because the parents wanted me to, and pulls me out of the place with everyone watching and then clapping!  No kidding.  I went with her to her place and well, um, well, you know.  She taught me a lot that semester.  All fun, no emotional stuff here.  I had to be careful with that because I really liked her.

Anyway, MILFs are great.  Get your own!  Here is one place you can find them: MarriedDateLink.com.  There are other great sites you can join by looking here: DateSitesReview.com – Milf Dating.  Happy MILFing!

~ Lonely wives want you

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Yesterday, I told you about Tom and NaughtyMatch.com.  Tom had a great time with some hookup, no strings attached, ladies and one of those was a married women.  I can tell you that the lady is also on LonelyWifeHookup.com.  She is one of many ladies who are married who are not getting what they want at home. You can call her a MILF or cougar if you want.  Now I have been criticized by some for advocating the sexual cheating, I call it freedom, of married women.  We can get into the morality of it all, but if we are going to be worried about morality the lines can be drawn anywhere.  How about no sex at all outside of marriage?  No gay love?  No masturbation, even?  So come on, please don’t lecture me about morality, especially when so many act holier-than-thou act in ways that are so contrary to any semblance of morality.  People in glass houses and all that.  But enough of that.

As you know by now, I truly feel people should be happy.  It was no fluke that our founding fathers declared that we as a people were deserving of life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.  As long as you aren’t hurting anyone, or doing something criminal, do what you can to be happy.  There is way too much misery in the world.  You see it each day, and in each person’s own world, there may very well be misery.  So when one has a chance, just friggin’ be happy.  And you know if that translates to crazy meaningless wild sex with some woman who has her own misery because of a bad marriage, so be it.  She deserves happiness as well, don’t you think?

OK, so where am I going with this?  I am touting a site that delivers.  The women are hot and they show it with hot and hotter pictures.  Why do they do this?  Because many of them are free to fool around because they are in open marriages, and many of them who may not be in open marriages at least want the freedom to give their lives some joy.  You out there are what they seek.  They want to screw someone’s brains out.  They may not getting it at home.  Or perhaps they are not getting enough at home.  Or perhaps they are and just want variety.  Or maybe they are on a mission to make guys who want to be with a married women have their dream come true.

After all, married women are experienced, they know what they want sexually, and if you find one who wants that with you, then you are damn lucky.  Join LonelyWifeHookup.com and you may very well find a wife or MILF who wants to please you as you please her.  She will be grateful and you will be satisfied and vice versa.  And who knows, it may turn into more than a hook up and may be many hook ups.  Go have fun with one or with many.  They are looking for you as you are looking for them.  Just be smart about things and make a good profile.  That always helps.  And be nice.  That will definitely help.  If you don’t want to be nice you can see our BDSM sites that we recommend, but that’s a different story for a different blog column.  🙂

~ To app or not to app

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Lately, I have received many inquiries about dating apps.  Makes sense.   I am in the dating business and I am in the technology business and I melt the two together, so why not?  You may think that being I promote dating through online websites that I might be against apps.  I am not.  In fact, many of the sites I use and promote have apps of their own.  Today, to stay competitive, you have to at least try to have that capability.  So generally I like dating apps, and I think they can be useful.

But, and this is an important but, there are issues with apps, some technological and others more scam-related and some a mix of the two.  The technological issues are those of downtime.  The scam-related issues are many seeded fake profiles or many prostitutes (yes, it’s true) and escorts with profiles, and a combination of the two, such as “hooker bots,” fake profiles that clutter the apps with pages and messages.  Yes, this has gone on and still goes on within dating sites, and if any of you use CraigsList, you may know about un-real people that attract searchers and then send them emails with links to pay sites, or escort sites, etc.  But the phenomenon of the apps includes why they are so popular.  It is because they are quick.  Phone app dating has become a “swipe” community.  Zoom, one way or the other.  There have also been criminals meeting up with people and making trouble.  And so much of this is because there is no care taken.  Again, it is all so quick.

I don’t tell people not to use apps.  I think like anything, you shouldn’t put all your eggs in one basket.  But make sure your basket includes dating personals websites.  The app scams are wasting people’s time and money, and they are becoming dangerous.  Google it.  They are even a problem for gay dating or niche dating.  There have been complaints about how the apps are being used to racially profile, and it is making people mad.  Use apps, enjoy.  But by also in the least using dating sites, and taking a little, not very much, time to look around and find someone, you are usually better off.  Aside from the fact you see many more pics of people and much more data, you can also easily see everything.  Your computer monitor is much bigger than your cell phone’s screen, if you can even call it that.

Apps are being used mainly for the fast hookup.  You can find a great hookup here – FlirtBuddies.com.  And you can find great hookups even on sites where you think that might not be the case, like here – MilfAholic.com. Finally, even niche sites like MatureHookupDating.com, BBWdesire.com and BlackCrush.com can be easily used for the hookup.  So have a portfolio if you will of sites and/or apps that can and will work for you.

~ MILF me!

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I had a great date last night!  It had been a while since my last date because I was so busy working and moving to a new place.  So I was happy when I was finally able to get some action, lol.  And for me lately, anything that takes me away from the office or home is action.  It became such a drag, even when I needed to do some research at the library, I was like, wow, this is great!  I am out somewhere!  But really, it had been a while and I was glad to get back into the game.

I found the girl on MilfAholic.com.  It’s a site I really like and have been recommending for a while.  I like MILFs – who doesn’t, for different reasons.  By the way, for some, what comes to mind when thinking of a MILF is some older couger, and that could be the case.  But there are also younger MILFs even 18 and 19 year olds.  So that misconception that the mom is older should go out the window.  Anyway, I digress.

My MILF was 27.  She was a single mom with 2 kids who also hadn’t had any fun in a long time.  Because we will still see each other, even though it will not be exclusive, I don’t want to use her real name, so I will call her MILFbabe.  Kidding.  I will call her Beth.  Beth sounds good, lol.  Anyway, when I saw her profile I was immediately attracted to her.  Because of her eyes.  Such beautiful eyes.  They hypnotized me.  I knew I had to write her and when I did, I heard back almost immediately.  That was a good sign.  I mean, don’t you hate when you wrote someone and you don’t hear back and you are always wondering if it’s too soon, or not?  But she replied fast and I appreciated it.  And I told her.  We chatted via the site and then by phone.  We also camchatted, mmmm.

So we made a date for last night because she could have her mom take the kids.  When I picked Beth up, there was electricity right away.  And what I liked was when we got to the restaurant, she took my arm in hers as we walked in.  Wow, I liked that.  We had a great chat and it went a bit bawdy and I was concerned people at neighboring tables could hear us.  We finally got so hot, and by the way she put her foot in my lap under the table, that we got the hell out of there before we finished eating.  We went back to her place and the fireworks began and lasted all night.  I am tired and almost thought of calling in sick but here I am, happy and writing for you, my loyal readers.  So check out MilfAholic.com.  You deserve it too!