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~ I met her at the laundromat

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When I first moved out to Cali and I rented a small guest house that didn’t have a washer/dryer, I used to go to a laundromat about a mile away.  It was kind of a pain in the ass and although as a bachelor guy I wasn’t super into being perfectly clean, I felt a bit weird using the same rows of machines that the great unwashed masses used.  I mean think about it.  Who uses laundromats?  I was a bit embarrassed as I schlepped my dirty clothes into some noisy room loaded with people like me, and those not like me.  I also felt bad for some.  It was one thing for young people who are just starting out having to go somewhere to pump quarters into washers and dryers.  It was sad seeing moms with kids and even a few elderly folks doing the same.  One would hope that all those who went to laundromats were those just starting out.  Not so.

But I digress.  The third time I did my laundry, and I was loading a washer, this cute chubby girl came up next to me and asked me if I was using the machine to my right.  I told her no.  So she said cool, and put her stuff on the bench behind us and started separating things and putting clothes in that machine and the one next to it.  Whites and coloreds she was doing.  Like me.  She had a nice smile so I introduced myself and she did as well.  Emily was her name.  She was from South Dakota.  I told he I had never met anyone form there till now and she said, “Then this is your lucky day.”  I told her it was hers too.  We both laughed.

Emily was a graduate student and she also worked part-time as a waitress.  She was about 5’ 5”, and was a bit heavy.  But damn, if she didn’t have a great personality.  I normally just put my stuff in the machines and go back to my place while the machines are going or I take a walk or something, rather than stay in the place, and Emily said she also would leave her stuff and come back.  But we were having such a good chat we both stayed and we did our laundry at the same time even using the dryers and chatting by them.  After we were both done and had folded our clothes and put everything in our baskets and cars we made a date to be back In two weeks to do our laundry together again.  I didn’t want to ask her out right then and there.  So it was OK, see you here same time in two weeks.

Sure enough when I got to the laundromat a couple weeks later at that time, um, she was not there.  I was a bit sad as I finished loading my stuff, even hoping I could keep the two washers next to me open for her.  Well, after I had fed the coins into both machines and turned them on, she came in and smacked me on the butt!  I told her that she had better mean it if she was going to do it.  When she took her jacket off I could see she wasn’t wearing a bra.  In fact, she could see that I could see, lol.  “No clean bras,” she said.  “You don’t mind do you?”  I told her I actually preferred it.  We both laughed.  And then I asked her out.  When I did I told her it wasn’t because of her flimsy top with no bra underneath where I could see very well the outline of her lovely chest.  She said, “Too bad, because that was the effect I was trying to make.”  Needless to say, we dated for a few months and had lots of fun.  It kind of just fizzled as each of us became too busy to mess around anymore and it was mostly that, messing around.

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~ BBW Valentine

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Well, Valentine’s Day is upon us again.  And as with anything and everything as we become more and more a 24/7 smaller world, things become more and more overblown.  Just 10 years ago, I don’t remember the craziness with this “holiday” and others that happen today.  So many ads, commercials, talk shows dwelling on it.  Sheesh!  And the hype started weeks ago!  Aren’t you sick of that?  Especially guys.  We have to be aware so that we don’t screw up with our significant others.  But you know what, I think it’s a ridiculous holiday that got out of hand.

Having said that, lol, I must plead guilty to a few years ago doing that nonsense because my gf at that time, was into it.  I was not, she was.  And if I wanted some you know, I had no choice.  Her name was Bethany and she was a small BBW.  About 5′ 3”, brown hair with blonde highlights, tanned nicely, really cute.  She was just out of college so a little young for me, but then again, who cares about age?  She was also very idealisitic and romantic.  Wanted to help save everyone and every animal, etc.  So she was into all that flowery kind of stuff, romance, etc.  I liked her and didn’t want to mess up anything, and also didn’t want to not get what I liked getting and you know what I mean.

So two weeks before Valentine’s Day I started planning.  I knew she liked horses so I thought about centering what I did with horseback riding somehow.  About 30 minutes northwest of the city was a horse farm.  So I called up and made an appointment for the day.  Luckily the holiday was on a Saturday like this year, and neither of us would have to miss work.  I decided to make a weekend out of it.  Get to the area Friday night and come back Sunday.  There was a nice hotel about two miles from the farm.  I also looked around for restaurants nearby, one for Friday night and another for Saturday night.  The hotel had breakfast so that would take care of Saturday and Sunday morning.  I picked two nice places, Mexican food, our favorite, for Friday night, and Italian food for Saturday night.  The horseback riding would be in a country area for a couple hours, maybe more, and there was a small bistro on the grounds.  That would take care of the late lunch after the riding.

Everything went perfectly.  Bethany knew I had made all the plans but she didn’t know what they were until they all happened.  Needless to say she loved me for it.  And we had lots of fun outside and inside.  I mean it was the best sex ever.  Stuff went on that well, I thought never would.  We broke up only 3 weeks later, lol.  She left to go off to some country somewhere to save someone or something.  And good for her, I wouldn’t stand in her way.  We were mostly FWB anyway.  The point of this story guys, is even if you think Valentine’s Day is stupid like I do, it can be worth it for what you get by making a little effort.

Hey, a great free dating site for you guys who like BBWs is CurvyBBW.com.  Be nice.  It works.  🙂

~ Birthday BBW

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Today I had lunch with a lawyer friend of mine, Larry.  We have these lunches I would say every four weeks or so.  Most of the chats we have while savoring our food are about politics, sometimes family and other things. I will admit to you that I am a political junkie, current events and all that as well.  I think I know more about what is happening around the world than most people, probably more that I should know.  I worry about things, like terrorism and the economy and energy and well, everything, lol.  I know I worry too much.  But anyway, my buddy Larry’s birthday is coming up next week so we were discussing, after the politics of course, what he would like on his birthday.

Poor Larry is coming off his second divorce.  His first marriage was years before his second, and this latest breakup has been pretty hard on him.  He wanted to make things work, she didn’t.  He actually sees her still, because they work near each other and he keeps seeing her on the street.  Bugs him no end and I feel bad for him.  He is a good guy and I am familiar with these one-sided breakups.  They are indeed painful.  She also calls him up every so often asking for something, a favor or whatever.  She cut the cord but apparently still hangs on to it.  And you know how it is, even after an official, legal separation, if the one you wanted to stay with still wants some kind of relationship even if it just to get something from you, you don’t object.  You hope maybe she will come to her senses and want you back.

But I digress.  Anyway, Larry is now into this ‘woe is me’ I am alone thing.  But Larry, who has always been a long term arrangement kind of guy, actually tells me he wants a hook up, and in some very colorful language, specific what he wants language.  And of course he asks me how to go about doing it because of what I do.  I was a bit surprised because my friend is a bit-straight laced and in the years I know him I never heard him say that.  And I know Larry so I know he is very much attracted to larger women.  It’s a bit funny because Larry is kind of short and thin, but hey opposites attract, right?  But he wanted to know what BBW site to join, so he can get the um, good time he wants.  And he doesn’t want a hooker or anything, just a nice big girl he can have fun with, maybe more than once.  And by the way, i think he really wants to settle with one again.  His first wife was a BBW.  He really thinks they are such good people, and I don’t disagree.

OK, so my first free adult dating site recommendation was FindaBBWLover.com.  That site has always performed for people.  I also recommended BBWDesire.com, another hookup performer.  I did tell Larry that if he wants to try again – and his second wife was not a BBW, quite the opposite, she was very petite, and maybe that was an issue – a very good relationship BBW site is CurvyBBW.com.  Happy birthday, Larry.  You have about a week to find your gift.  And if you use the sites above, you won’t need that long to find it, and unwrap it.  🙂

~ BS sites, sheesh!

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What a day!  In the middle of work this morning, my computer died.  And it took me so long to try and fix it to no avail, that I just decided to reinstall the operating system.  Even that gave me a hard time, not the reinstall itself but the aftermath, still not knowing as I write this in the evening that all will be ok.  Absolutely nothing.  I am venting, lol.

But I have been irritated for sure.  I, of course, had to work so I used another computer as I was trying to fix the other.  Today’s work consisted of research of dating websites.  Sometime I find it boring and sometimes I find it interesting.  But I always shake my head at some of the crap I find.  I mean it is so blatant as to be ridiculous.  About a month ago, my best friend’s sister, Carla, contacted me and asked if within a certain website if I had contacted her by showing “interest.”  I told her that I had not been on that particular dating site for two years!  So how could it happen?   Carla said she called customer service and that there was some rude lady in India or the Philippines or somewhere who told her it was all real.  But it wasn’t of course.  Carla was so pissed.  She had thought that those who had contacted her were real and so she wrote back.  But she never heard back and didn’t know what to think.  It was humiliating.

I had the number of those who run the site and I called and got hold of an admin who was nice and who told me she would look into it.  She did while putting me on hold and told me she could not find an answer.  But she would get back to me.  She did via email and claimed it was a technical issue they would fix.  Of course, she was full of it.  I told Carla to dump the site that they were doing worse than “seeding,” making false profiles, which is generally the most the unscrupulous will do.   I have heard of this BS for sure, but it was the first time I was part of the scam.  I made my views known.  I did receive an apology but so what.

So today one of the sites I joined, I did very quickly because I needed to run out, so all I do aside from filling out the basic is say on each essay part,”Will get to this later.”  That’s it.  As soon as I am done with that, the next page tells me I already have had 47 people looking at my profile! And I had 4 messages!   Like in one second.  How can that be?  And I had some express interest.  Sheesh!  Look people I have found a number of good dating sites and I list them on this site.  You want real or fake?  Go to FlirtBuddies.com for a fling.  Want to meet a beautiful BBW, see BBWDesire.com.  Into something kinky?  Join the great BDSM.com.   Like trannies?  Check out TSdating.com.  Those are just a few here that will work for you.  Enjoy!

~ To app or not to app

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Lately, I have received many inquiries about dating apps.  Makes sense.   I am in the dating business and I am in the technology business and I melt the two together, so why not?  You may think that being I promote dating through online websites that I might be against apps.  I am not.  In fact, many of the sites I use and promote have apps of their own.  Today, to stay competitive, you have to at least try to have that capability.  So generally I like dating apps, and I think they can be useful.

But, and this is an important but, there are issues with apps, some technological and others more scam-related and some a mix of the two.  The technological issues are those of downtime.  The scam-related issues are many seeded fake profiles or many prostitutes (yes, it’s true) and escorts with profiles, and a combination of the two, such as “hooker bots,” fake profiles that clutter the apps with pages and messages.  Yes, this has gone on and still goes on within dating sites, and if any of you use CraigsList, you may know about un-real people that attract searchers and then send them emails with links to pay sites, or escort sites, etc.  But the phenomenon of the apps includes why they are so popular.  It is because they are quick.  Phone app dating has become a “swipe” community.  Zoom, one way or the other.  There have also been criminals meeting up with people and making trouble.  And so much of this is because there is no care taken.  Again, it is all so quick.

I don’t tell people not to use apps.  I think like anything, you shouldn’t put all your eggs in one basket.  But make sure your basket includes dating personals websites.  The app scams are wasting people’s time and money, and they are becoming dangerous.  Google it.  They are even a problem for gay dating or niche dating.  There have been complaints about how the apps are being used to racially profile, and it is making people mad.  Use apps, enjoy.  But by also in the least using dating sites, and taking a little, not very much, time to look around and find someone, you are usually better off.  Aside from the fact you see many more pics of people and much more data, you can also easily see everything.  Your computer monitor is much bigger than your cell phone’s screen, if you can even call it that.

Apps are being used mainly for the fast hookup.  You can find a great hookup here – FlirtBuddies.com.  And you can find great hookups even on sites where you think that might not be the case, like here – MilfAholic.com. Finally, even niche sites like MatureHookupDating.com, BBWdesire.com and BlackCrush.com can be easily used for the hookup.  So have a portfolio if you will of sites and/or apps that can and will work for you.

~ BBWs

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When was the term BBW created?  I mean I am not against it, in fact, I like it.  I think it is nice to use something like that rather than something nasty or mean.  Well, I did some research and I saw that the term was made by someone by the name of Carole Shaw in 1979.  She founded a fashion publication called BBW Magazine, and well, the rest is history.  Why do I bring this up?  No reason.  Kidding.  I am mentioning this because I happen to love BBW’s and I have had many dates with them and have never had a bad one.  I have had plenty of bad dates believe me with other body type women, but never a bad one with a BBW.

Now why is that?  I have some theories.  And when I tell you please don’t get mad or think I am trying to be mean or stereotypical or anything.  I am just giving my opinion here.

First, I think women who struggle with their weight feel more grateful at times when they are given attention.  Now don’t get mad.  Not every BBW is like that.  Some don’t care or have enough confidence not to think about all that.  But I have found that and I know others have as well.  So I mean no disrespect, especially when I think a BBW should not feel self-conscious in the least, that she is beautiful no matter what.  Second, many BBW’s to me are very self-assured, happy, confident, eager to please their man.  Third, and this might seem weird, I think there is a pride factor.  Many BBWs wear the title proudly.  They like what they are and use it to their advantage because they know there are many guys like me who like them.

Do you like BBWs too?  Want to date one?  This site has several reviews on BBW sites and there are 3 excellent BBW dating sites you should consider joining.  First is BBWDesire.com.  If you are looking for a wild BBW this is the place.  Next is FindABBWLover.com.  Super hot babes here.  The next to consider is CurvyBBW.com.  This is for the more serious of you looking for the non-hookup thing although that can be found as well.  Good luck!