Today I had lunch with a lawyer friend of mine, Larry.  We have these lunches I would say every four weeks or so.  Most of the chats we have while savoring our food are about politics, sometimes family and other things. I will admit to you that I am a political junkie, current events and all that as well.  I think I know more about what is happening around the world than most people, probably more that I should know.  I worry about things, like terrorism and the economy and energy and well, everything, lol.  I know I worry too much.  But anyway, my buddy Larry’s birthday is coming up next week so we were discussing, after the politics of course, what he would like on his birthday.

Poor Larry is coming off his second divorce.  His first marriage was years before his second, and this latest breakup has been pretty hard on him.  He wanted to make things work, she didn’t.  He actually sees her still, because they work near each other and he keeps seeing her on the street.  Bugs him no end and I feel bad for him.  He is a good guy and I am familiar with these one-sided breakups.  They are indeed painful.  She also calls him up every so often asking for something, a favor or whatever.  She cut the cord but apparently still hangs on to it.  And you know how it is, even after an official, legal separation, if the one you wanted to stay with still wants some kind of relationship even if it just to get something from you, you don’t object.  You hope maybe she will come to her senses and want you back.

But I digress.  Anyway, Larry is now into this ‘woe is me’ I am alone thing.  But Larry, who has always been a long term arrangement kind of guy, actually tells me he wants a hook up, and in some very colorful language, specific what he wants language.  And of course he asks me how to go about doing it because of what I do.  I was a bit surprised because my friend is a bit-straight laced and in the years I know him I never heard him say that.  And I know Larry so I know he is very much attracted to larger women.  It’s a bit funny because Larry is kind of short and thin, but hey opposites attract, right?  But he wanted to know what BBW site to join, so he can get the um, good time he wants.  And he doesn’t want a hooker or anything, just a nice big girl he can have fun with, maybe more than once.  And by the way, i think he really wants to settle with one again.  His first wife was a BBW.  He really thinks they are such good people, and I don’t disagree.

OK, so my first free adult dating site recommendation was FindaBBWLover.com.  That site has always performed for people.  I also recommended BBWDesire.com, another hookup performer.  I did tell Larry that if he wants to try again – and his second wife was not a BBW, quite the opposite, she was very petite, and maybe that was an issue – a very good relationship BBW site is CurvyBBW.com.  Happy birthday, Larry.  You have about a week to find your gift.  And if you use the sites above, you won’t need that long to find it, and unwrap it.  🙂