| BDSM Dating Sites | Rating | Overview (dating site reviews below) | Visit Site |
| BDSM.com | ★★★★★ | This fetish site is for anyone in the lifestyle, looking at free adult dating sites, sub or dom, for bdsm singles or couples, this site does very well. | FREE TO TRY |
| BondageDating.com | ★★★★ | Bondage Dating is easy to use, lots of subs to choose, and plenty of interested vanillas; there are also many switches, slaves and other bdsm singles kinky folk. | FREE TO TRY |
| BDSMsingles.com | ★★★★ | There are enough doms, submissive’s and switches on BDSM singles, slaves and others to satisfy anyone seeking serious fetish dating adult personals. | FREE TO TRY |
| BDSMdatelink.com | ★★★ | BDSM Date Link is for normal, casual hookups on an adult dating site, if that is your goal, 3 out of 5. As a BDSM site, it fell a bit short. | FREE TO TRY |
| Alt.com | ★★★ | If you want a bdsm dating sex date or alternative dating site, this is not horrible and has some merit – but it is definitely more of an alternative lifestyles site than specifically BDSM. 3 out of 5 stars for fetish hookups. | FREE TO TRY |
BDSM DATING SITES REVIEWS
BDSM.com 
(5 / 5)
It was painful reviewing the free adult personals site, BDSM.com, and I say that in a good way. 🙂 For disclosure purposes, I am a sub. Imagine a fetish dating site like FetLif e but being able to query and easily find people near you. The pics on this bdsm dating site are pretty hardcore, and the site is easy to navigate, and I was half-expecting to be invited to a munch, lol. After making my profile, I made a search through the adult personals for a woman, a couple (man/woman), a couple (2 women) and a group, for those seeking a man, ages 18 – 25 within 50 miles of me, who joined within the last week. I found 20 close-by results. Subs, doms, switches, tops, bottoms, those unsure, they were all here. I contacted 6 and did more searches. In the 18 days for review purposes (I continued on my own after), I was in contact with 61/111 to whom I sent notes. I met 6, and a couple were into the kinky fetishes I like. I would mention them here if I could. Let’s just say I had some “no ‘holes’ barred” “master”ful experiences. I think for anyone in the lifestyle, looking at free adult dating sites, sub or dom, for bdsm singles or couples, this site does very well.
Bottom line, I highly recommend this adult dating site site. It hurts me to say this, pun intended, but among all the bdsm sites on the web, this one: 5 out of 5 stars.
BondageDating.com 
(4.5 / 5)
As a dom, I expect a lot from my lifestyle (in and out of the bedroom, by the way) and the bdsm dating sites I join. When I knew I was going to review the free bdsm site, BondageDating.com, I was pretty happy. I had heard about this particular free adult personals place, but had yet to experience it. Fetlif is my lifestyle pretty much so you know where I am coming from. I don’t want to spend time on nonsense. Let’s get right to it. The good: easy to use, lots of subs for me, and interested vanillas; there are also many switches, slaves and other bdsm singles kinky folk. Out of the 111 with whom I shared notes, I ended up meeting 32, and punishing a good number of them. As you know, there are many ladies who at least want to experiment in a top/bottom setting. The bad: ads, sometimes a bit of slowness or jumpy pages, a slow customer service rep. The ugly: some attitude by other doms (I asked for site info from a couple), but hey, that’s not what we are here for and several ladies who didn’t know what they wanted and kept sending me nasty pics of themselves to keep my attention. (Not for me.) Honestly, I guess not so bad for a bdsm dating free adult dating community.
In the end, I would say this as adult dating sites go, BondageDating.com is a pretty good adult dating site, maybe not my #1 pick, but good. If you are new to this kind of thing, even not a dom, I would say, give it a go. I think you will be pretty satisfied. 4.5 out of 5 stars.
BDSMsingles.com 
(4 / 5)
I will be honest here. I have yet to be a part of the BDSM dating lifestyle. Maybe for this review it is a good thing. I took this analysis seriously because I wanted to learn as well take part. BDSMsingles.com, a bdsm personals website, unlike other bdsm sites doesn’t brag too much on the join page, it simply says it’s, “The Premier BDSM Dating Community.” It’s my job to see if that is true, or is at least worth your interest. There are ads for other sites on each page and that always makes me wary, but hey, I guess when it comes to free adult personals, people need to make a buck. I think there are enough doms, subs and switches here, slaves and others (see I am learning), to satisfy anyone seeking serious fetish dating adult personals. There are 2 people into this lifestyle here with me in my office and for a few days I spoke to them to take their advice and see what they thought of this adult dating site. Once I familiarized myself with things, I spent the next 2 weeks making contacts and talking with people in my area. (A few way outside my area also.) I do know this. The people are nice. They are passionate about the lifestyle too. Sometimes adult dating sites may be worth the effort.
So, how did it go with this BDSM dating adult dating site? After 57 contacts, and 21 phone chats and emails, I met 7 people. All went well, let’s just say that, so I will continue. 4 out of 5 stars.
BDSMdatelink.com 
(3 / 5)
I am a switch so I am pretty flexible when it comes to my in-the-bedroom activities. Would BDSMdatelink.com work as a bdsm dating site? Will this yet another of adult dating sites work for you? Here is my review.
I made my profile and started making detailed searches. Right from the bat I could see this was a regular hook up free adult personals site for singles and others. This is not really much of a bdsm site at all. (Where are the bdsm singles?) But I was tasked to join and make a review so I did my best. There are lots of profiles here with many photos, regular and hardcore. That’s a good thing. If I simply wanted vanilla encounters, that was easy and available and that’s a good thing as well. But hey, this is a bdsm site so my focus was on the bdsm lifestyle. I found this free bdsm site lacking. I was able to find women (and others) interested, but I shouldn’t have had to work at it. I got through all the numbers of contacts and get-togethers, and yes, I had a number and there was someone into foot fetish sites that I found intriguing, but I really don’t think for review purposes it matters. I was mostly disappointed. And by the way, there were these annoying chat pop things that would not stop. This adult personals site tries hard but comes up short. For bdsm dating, give it a pass, 1.5 out of 5 stars. For normal, casual hookups on just another adult dating site, if that is your goal, 3 out of 5.
Alt.com (3 / 5)
This Dom was only too pleased to be given this BDSM dating review assignment because I am always looking for Subs or even vanilla’s who want to learn. I love teaching. I wasn’t thrilled about the set up of the adult personals pages, but I drilled away. For many of the profiles on this free alternative site, I only found a few expressing true fetish dating interests. I kept looking for subs and slaves, and only found a few. After searching for awhile, I found my BDSM sex date. I let 2 friends get in and also look at what I thought might be among the best adult dating sites. My interest was in BDSM as part of a relationship, short or long, so I will tell you, it was only okay. But since I joined, and being I had 2 nuts interested in just regular free adult dating hookups, I will let you know what they found in case you want that too.
They liked the multi-cam chat rooms (I didn’t care) and yes, they met women, 20 – 58, within driving distance, and had sex dates. Here’s the deal: if you want a bdsm dating sex date, don’t waste your time, but if you are looking for a variety of alt personals, then this is not great, but doable. My buddies told me a few gals were just time-wasters. For just sex, 3 out of 5 stars.