~ Now what do I do?

So you find your lady on one of the sites here.  Then what?  If it’s a simple hook up, you know what to do.  You do, don’t you?  Do you really need me to tell you how to do that?  Just be aggressive and make plans to meet and then do your thing, lol.  But what about a date with someone that may end as a hookup but is at least at the start, a typical date.  And it may just be that typical date leading to a relationship.  So you found each other and you want to meet.  Now what?

Do you go to a movie?  Dinner?  Horseback riding?  The library?  What do you do now?  I have heard these questions a lot.  Hell, I have had the same and asked the same.  Here is my take on it.  It depends, lol.  Now, now, that is not a copout.  It really depends.  If the two of you hit it off over notes, emails or texts or over the phone, you will have already have discussed it and you know what each of you wants or likes to do.  Or if you have hit it off and not discussed it, you will know what to do.  Make it a surprise, that will be nice.

If you have really great conversations and get along super well, after whatever you do, a movie, miniature golf, bowling, whatever, offer a choice of dinner.  Either a restaurant, one that you know and are prepared to take her, or offer to make a meal for her at your place.  If things work, well then things may go to a room other than the kitchen and dining room when the meal is done.  If you eat at a restaurant, then take it from there.  Everything depends on whether you both are enjoying yourselves with your conversation.  Both of you may want to just get the hell away from each other, lol.  If that is the case, then do it.  Better to end things sooner rather than later.

What to talk about.  When you start the conversations, if you don’t already have similar interests to chat about, then you need to delve into it.  On the free dating sites we list, when you make your profile, even if you don’t check off or identify the interests you have and those you hope your partner has, you can note it on your essay questions.  I know this sounds obvious, but you would be surprised at how many people just don’t fill out their profiles even though they actively seek someone on the dating sites, or they fill things out very sparingly.  And I wonder about people who answer the essay questions by writing, “Will get to this later,” but then don’t understand why they can’t attract someone to them.  So the more you reveal, even with your pictures – have several and use some that are unique and could generate interest, the better chance you will have in not just meeting someone online and then off, but you will have something to say.  And then so will she.  All it takes is a little more effort and then everything will fall into place.  And if after what you consider was sufficient and things still don’t seem right, then move on.  There are many women out there and you will find one for you.  Or more than one.  You will.

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