~ Lonely wives want you

Yesterday, I told you about Tom and NaughtyMatch.com.  Tom had a great time with some hookup, no strings attached, ladies and one of those was a married women.  I can tell you that the lady is also on LonelyWifeHookup.com.  She is one of many ladies who are married who are not getting what they want at home. You can call her a MILF or cougar if you want.  Now I have been criticized by some for advocating the sexual cheating, I call it freedom, of married women.  We can get into the morality of it all, but if we are going to be worried about morality the lines can be drawn anywhere.  How about no sex at all outside of marriage?  No gay love?  No masturbation, even?  So come on, please don’t lecture me about morality, especially when so many act holier-than-thou act in ways that are so contrary to any semblance of morality.  People in glass houses and all that.  But enough of that.

As you know by now, I truly feel people should be happy.  It was no fluke that our founding fathers declared that we as a people were deserving of life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.  As long as you aren’t hurting anyone, or doing something criminal, do what you can to be happy.  There is way too much misery in the world.  You see it each day, and in each person’s own world, there may very well be misery.  So when one has a chance, just friggin’ be happy.  And you know if that translates to crazy meaningless wild sex with some woman who has her own misery because of a bad marriage, so be it.  She deserves happiness as well, don’t you think?

OK, so where am I going with this?  I am touting a site that delivers.  The women are hot and they show it with hot and hotter pictures.  Why do they do this?  Because many of them are free to fool around because they are in open marriages, and many of them who may not be in open marriages at least want the freedom to give their lives some joy.  You out there are what they seek.  They want to screw someone’s brains out.  They may not getting it at home.  Or perhaps they are not getting enough at home.  Or perhaps they are and just want variety.  Or maybe they are on a mission to make guys who want to be with a married women have their dream come true.

After all, married women are experienced, they know what they want sexually, and if you find one who wants that with you, then you are damn lucky.  Join LonelyWifeHookup.com and you may very well find a wife or MILF who wants to please you as you please her.  She will be grateful and you will be satisfied and vice versa.  And who knows, it may turn into more than a hook up and may be many hook ups.  Go have fun with one or with many.  They are looking for you as you are looking for them.  Just be smart about things and make a good profile.  That always helps.  And be nice.  That will definitely help.  If you don’t want to be nice you can see our BDSM sites that we recommend, but that’s a different story for a different blog column.  🙂

~ To app or not to app

Lately, I have received many inquiries about dating apps.  Makes sense.   I am in the dating business and I am in the technology business and I melt the two together, so why not?  You may think that being I promote dating through online websites that I might be against apps.  I am not.  In fact, many of the sites I use and promote have apps of their own.  Today, to stay competitive, you have to at least try to have that capability.  So generally I like dating apps, and I think they can be useful.

But, and this is an important but, there are issues with apps, some technological and others more scam-related and some a mix of the two.  The technological issues are those of downtime.  The scam-related issues are many seeded fake profiles or many prostitutes (yes, it’s true) and escorts with profiles, and a combination of the two, such as “hooker bots,” fake profiles that clutter the apps with pages and messages.  Yes, this has gone on and still goes on within dating sites, and if any of you use CraigsList, you may know about un-real people that attract searchers and then send them emails with links to pay sites, or escort sites, etc.  But the phenomenon of the apps includes why they are so popular.  It is because they are quick.  Phone app dating has become a “swipe” community.  Zoom, one way or the other.  There have also been criminals meeting up with people and making trouble.  And so much of this is because there is no care taken.  Again, it is all so quick.

I don’t tell people not to use apps.  I think like anything, you shouldn’t put all your eggs in one basket.  But make sure your basket includes dating personals websites.  The app scams are wasting people’s time and money, and they are becoming dangerous.  Google it.  They are even a problem for gay dating or niche dating.  There have been complaints about how the apps are being used to racially profile, and it is making people mad.  Use apps, enjoy.  But by also in the least using dating sites, and taking a little, not very much, time to look around and find someone, you are usually better off.  Aside from the fact you see many more pics of people and much more data, you can also easily see everything.  Your computer monitor is much bigger than your cell phone’s screen, if you can even call it that.

Apps are being used mainly for the fast hookup.  You can find a great hookup here – FlirtBuddies.com.  And you can find great hookups even on sites where you think that might not be the case, like here – MilfAholic.com. Finally, even niche sites like MatureHookupDating.com, BBWdesire.com and BlackCrush.com can be easily used for the hookup.  So have a portfolio if you will of sites and/or apps that can and will work for you.

~ Senior ladies and MILFs

There is something to be said about dating women older than you, and sometimes even much older.   And older MILFs.  Cougars are older ladies, sometimes as MILFs and sometimes not.  These older ladies like younger guys, called cubs when with cougars, and they love that they can explore their sexuality either within a marriage or outside or after.  So today I am writing about both older women and MILF older women.

I must tell you I have not had lots of dates with older women but yes I have had a few.  And the best one was with a lady 30 years older than me.  Laura was so liberated and carefree.  And yes, her body was not perfect, but it was still pretty good.  And I am not perfect myself so why should I care.  She had 3 grandchildren and was pretty proud of them from what she told me.  Her marriage of 27 years went south and so she got divorced and became a wild lady.  And I was pretty darn glad.

Laura and I dated for like 3 months.  It was mostly physical more than dating going out dating.  Which was fine by me.  The whole reason we got together was for fun. I found her on MatureLoverSearch.com and she was quick to respond.  We noted back and forth a bit and then talked on the phone, which was super wild by the way, then we shared pics, hers very wild, and then we met.  Lots of “thens” here, lol.  Anyway, we had the same in-the-sack interests and she was only too happy to please.  As was I.  I think that’s important.

The only reason Laura and I stopped “dating” was because she saw her high school sweetheart at a restaurant and decided to give it a try with him.  I had no issue with that at all being we were only a physical thing anyway.  And I wanted her to be happy.  I never heard from my cougar again and I assume she is happy and having a nice life.  So do yourself a favor.  Look for the older MILFs or senior ladies.  They will add a new dimension in your life.  Again, you can find women like Laura at MatureLoverSearch.com.  (Here is a great MILF site by the way – MilfAholic.com.)

~ Not bad at all

OK, so I really like this blog thing because I like just talking about my experiences and views and I like letting others know.  Being I just started, I will include dates I have had in the past, before the one I posted a couple days ago, which was recent.  And of course, as my dating life continues, so will I to write dating reviews.  On me and on others when I hear about them.  But enough of this.

Last month, I met a lady from LonelyWifeHookup.com.  I was surfing around the site and I liked her picture.  She was 49, and didn’t say much on her profile page, but that was OK.  Have you noticed that sometimes when someone says too much, they could end up being loony?  So sometimes I will go with the ones who are let’s say, profile word quiet.  Well anyway, she did get back to me right away which was nice, and we struck up a back and forth and then chatted.  Her name was Anna.  She was hotter on the phone than in her pic, which thankfully showed plenty of cleavage.  She thought I was cute which was nice.   Anna didn’t hold back, and the conversation brought me to attention real quick.  🙂  And hey, if the other party goes there, I don’t hold back.  I don’t push it, but I follow the lead if you know what I mean.  By the way, she was in an open marriage, at least she said so.  And she said her husband has his fun too.  So we decided to meet the next weekend.  We would get together in a coffee shop near me and if all went well, we would then go to my place.

I confirmed with Anna the next week and when I got to the shop she was already there.  And I was 20 minutes early!  Nice.  The chat went great and got a bit dirty and we had to get the hell out of there and go to my place.  So how did it go?  It was fantastic.  Anna’s body was pretty good for her age and the fact that she had 3 kids.  We had a drink first, and hey she likes beer.  We talked a bit more, and then we got down to business.  It was fun, let me just say that.  We were going to meet again in a couple weeks but she had to go out of town to help her sick mom.  We will get together again, for sure.  So all in all, a pretty good thing.  Thanks for listening.